IS IT RUDE FOR A NEIGHBOR TO ALLOW THEIR DOG WHO HAS SEVERE SEPARATION ANXIETY, TO BARK, CRY, AND HOWL INCESSANTLY WHILE THEY LEAVE the dog ALONE FOR LONG LENGTHS OF TIME?
Yes, it is generally considered rude for a neighbor to allow their dog to bark and howl incessantly for hours, especially if it is due to separation anxiety. Not only is it disruptive to the peace and quiet of the neighborhood, but it can also be distressing for the dog and cause unnecessary stress and anxiety.
If you feel comfortable speaking with your neighbor, you might consider politely yet firmly expressing your concerns and suggesting potential solutions. For instance, that the neighbor could try providing the dog with toys or treats to keep them occupied, or they could perhaps hire a dog walker or pet sitter to keep the dog company while they're away. These days there are SO many options that were literally not available even twenty years ago. Consider APPS like: Wag.com, Rover.com, Fetch.com, Trustedhousesitters.com, which all require background checks and screening for provided services. They could also purchase a pet/nanny cam and ‘monitor’ the dog while trying to leave home, and they would start by doing so for a few minutes at a time and ‘work up to more time’ in increments. That way, they can tell if their dog is over-anxious, cannot settle down, is crying or howling incessantly then they can return quickly. There are even Dog-Centric Cameras like FURBO that not only monitor the dog, the camera also tosses out little treats!
If speaking with your neighbor doesn't work, you might consider reaching out to your local animal control agency, because contrary to public belief, they will first most usually come out or call the dog owner who has the dog having the problems, and offer viable solutions like the ones mentioned, as well as offer resources to dog training and with an emphasis on behavioral issues like separation anxiety, dogs that have come from traumatic situations like shelters, puppy mills, etc. If the problem continues and the dog is still in a state of distress and the owner/neighbor is absent and or non-responsive, then you may have no other recourse than to contact your local law enforcement for assistance. *Most people don’t want to do this first, if at all because many are pet parents/pet owners themselves and they are ‘genuinely’ concerned for the welfare of the dog in distress, but they DO want the dog’s owner to get help for the dog, and simultaneously they want their neighborhood to get back to and to remain in a state of relative peace and quiet.
If you've talked with your neighbor cordially and suggested the above things and all they have to say is: It will just take time for my dog to quit barking while being left alone, then what do you do?
If you have already spoken with your neighbor and suggested potential solutions, and they are not willing to take positive action steps to address the barking and howling, you and or a group of concerned neighbors may need to peacefully escalate the situation. Here are some steps you could take:
Check local noise ordinances: First, check your local noise ordinances to see if the barking is violating any laws. If it is, you may be able to file a noise complaint with your local authorities. Most if not all of these places will tell you that it is in fact inhumane, as well as a violation of the law to leave a dog barking, howling, crying, baying for longer than 5 minutes within any hour long time frame. Unfortunately, even though many cities are well funded, Noise Ordinance and or Animal Control Departments seem to be some of the MOST Understaffed. Many will tell you that even in a huge geographic area where the County may be one of the Largest counties in the State or Province, they only have 3-6 ‘dedicated’ employees in that department to handle such a HUGE area. Don’t despair, try to call in ‘as SOON as’ you hear the dog in distress because most of these departments also do NOT even ‘dispatch’ the officers to the call until sometimes an Hour or more PAST the time they receive your call because they are busy with Internal as well as External issues involving Noise and or Animal Noise/Control complaints/issues.
Document the barking: We realize that this is an incredible inconvenience and takes up alot of your time and energy that you would normally utilize to live your own life peacefully and as a good neighbor, but it may be helpful from a legal standpoint for you to keep a log of the times and duration of the barking and howling, as well as any other relevant details such as whether the dog is left outside or inside, and whether the owner is home or not. You could also record video and audio of the barking, baying, howling dog(s) IF you have the time and technical skills to do so, but keep in mind that you need to do so away from the barking dog’s/negligent neighbor’s property or they may try to ‘gaslight’ the situation and insinuate that you neighbors are trying to get their dog(s) to bark, when in fact it is actually simply a person who doesn’t care if their dog is in distress OR if their Neighborhood and their more peaceful neighbor’s own pets, kids, are now upset by all the incessant barking with no reprimand or training/intervention. Btw, since common sense dictates that dogs are pack animals, and it is instinctive for them to want to find our why the other dog(s) are barking in distress AND why No humans are going to their aid. Even the smartest dogs simply do NOT understand WHY no one would help a fellow canine; especially when ‘they view us humans as the leaders up their packs and look up to us.’
Consider mediation: If you have a homeowners association or community mediation program, or a landlord, consider contacting them to see if/how they can help mediate the situation between you and your neighbor.
Seek legal action: If the barking continues and is causing a significant disruption to your quality of life, you may need to consider seeking legal action. Consult with an attorney to see what options are available to you.
Ultimately, it is important to remember that resolving the issue may take some time, quite a bit of behavior modification and professional training for the dog(s), and for their owner/your neighbor to do consistent training with the dog(s)at home and/or send them to a professional trainer so that the neighborhood can get back to its peaceful state of being and so that the dogs receive the time and attention that they deserve in order to be better canine citizens.
